I continue to receive support and encouragement from a lot
of folks and I cannot express how much this means to me. The offers of help, encouragement and prayers
have buoyed my spirits. I get a lot of
messages through the wife. This is great. She needs that boost as much as I do and I
want her to have it. They know that
their message will get to me. I know
that she is much closer to more people.
Whether it be for me or how she is faring, they are truly
concerned. Some are just more comfortable
talking to her.
I have learned some things about myself through this. One, I really don't need to be
alone with my thoughts to long. They go
to dark places I don't want them going.
It doesn't happen very often but it does happen. Especially with the fact that the doctor has
told me my cancer is not life threatening.
However, the docs always hedge their bets a bit and there is always
something else like, 'we will know more once we do the surgery and get the full
pathology and also see if we want to look at lymph nodes.' Even though the numbers for success are
incredibly high with this type cancer, there is that huge 'but' that looms in
everything they say even if they don't say it.
I manage just fine most all the time, until I have to much time without
enough to keep my mind occupied. Prayer
has helped at those times. But there
are times I can't turn that off completely.
Let's face it, the "C" word is a huge fear for most everyone
at one time or another. Writing about
this helps in a weird way somehow. I
really can't explain it. I just hope it
reaches someone and they take action that may save their life.
Hopefully I can grow something positive in myself out of all
this. I think I can try to be more
sensitive to folks feelings when they are in crisis mode and maybe be better at
saying the right things at the right time.
Or at least less awkward. Be
more prompt in responding to their crisis and making myself available to help
where I can. Rely more in my
Faith. There are two very special
ladies that have had and are having their own battle with cancer, that have
been so kind and gracious to me offering support. This touches me deeply. The grace and strength with which they face their
trails is more than remarkable. If I
can match how they handle theirs by a small percentage, I would be doing pretty
well.
Most all want to help a friend or loved one somehow in these
situations at one time or another and not knowing what to do or say is a
problem for many. In almost every case
and mine especially, I am sure most want as I do no special treatment. What I do need, I need you to continue being a friend, or maybe a prayer. I don't
think that asks too much of anyone.
Thanks for stopping by, and fellas, get that prostate checked.
2 comments:
Praying for good health and a complete healing for you!
Linda
http://coloradofarmlife.wordpress.com
Thoughts and prayers will continue!
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